To the dearest friends!

So, when you know who is a good friend you will be able to become a good friend to others. And let’s see how our friendship guide us to the truth!

“Monks, a friend gifted with these seven qualities is worth associating with.  Which seven? 

• 01^st Quality - A friend who gives what is hard to give
• 02^nd Quality - A friend who does what is hard to do
• 03^rd Quality - A friend who endures what is hard to endure
• 04^th Quality - A friend who reveals his secrets to you
• 05^th Quality - A friend who keeps your secrets
• 06^th Quality - A friend who doesn’t abandon you no matter what strikes you
• 07^th Quality - A friend who doesn’t look down on you when you are not doing well.

A friend who gifted with these 7 qualities is worth associating with” (Read the full sutta in Pali Canon > Aṅguttara Nikāya (AN) > Book of the Sevens > Deities (Devatā vagga) > 7.36. A Friend)

What more important is check these qualities within.  If you have these qualities that means you truly are a good friend.  So, then its obvious that you attract the same nature.  The more you cultivate these qualities the more you become a good friend to others.  Let’s see what are the good qualities you cultivate by being a good friend.  In another way you are cultivating ten perfections which leads you to the true liberation. 

• 01^st Quality – means you are generous & you cultivate generosity. This means you are cultivating the perfection of generosity - Dāna pāramī 
• 02^nd Quality – means you are vigorous & you cultivate vigor.  This means you are cultivating the perfection of effort - Viriya pāramī
• 03^rd Quality – means your endurance & you cultivate calmness.  This means you are cultivating the perfection of patience, tolerance, acceptance, endurance - Khanti pāramī
• 04^th Quality – means you are reliable & you cultivate reliability.  This means you are cultivating the perfection of truthfulness, honesty - Sacca pāramī
• 05^th Quality – means you are responsible & you cultivate accountability.  This means you are cultivating the perfection of virtue, morality, proper conduct - Sīla pāramī
• 06^th Quality – means your persistence & you cultivate determination.  This means you are cultivating the perfection of determination, resolution - Adhitthāna pāramī   
• 07^th Quality – means you are compassionate & you cultivate compassion. This means you are cultivating the perfection of goodwill, friendliness, loving-kindness - Mettā pāramī.  Also, this shows the way how you can treat a person equally with out judging them of who they are.  This cultivates the perfection of equanimity, serenity - Upekkhā pāramī

Through all these you are cultivating the perfection of wisdom, discernment - Paññā pāramī which leads you to the true liberation - Nekkhamma pāramī.

So, you see my dear dhamma friends, being a good friend is indeed is the path of true liberation.  The more you cultivate these noble 07 qualities within the more you are capable of meeting noble beings with same noble qualities. You cultivate the ten perfections named Paramitas which will guide you to the ultimate truth.  So, the blessed one’s way is based on true friendship.  So, it begins here… yes, right now… within you… by being a good friend to others. 

So, I am one luckiest person in this earth to have such beautiful good friends from my childhood.  I am truly blessed with so many good friends with these noble qualities.  Most of us doesn’t hang out so much but we all know that we are there for us!  I believe I am a good friend, so that’s the reason I am blessed with such beautiful friends around always.  So, can you say too that you are the luckiest person because you have such beautiful friends and they believe you are one good friend too?    There are no thanks & sorry among us so I would say I am truly blessed by you my dearest friends! and This is a tribute to all my beautiful friends!